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                    Deal with conflict 

   Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you don't know how to deal with anger and conflict. Conflict is part of everyone's 1 . It will show up at school,at work and at home. ItJs OK to feel angry,annoyed or sad. These feelings are 2 , but different people deal with 3 in different ways. Some people shout,call people names,or even hit the person who has 4 them. Others do their best to keep away from disagreements but very few deal with conflict 5 .

      Dealing with conflict is a step by step progress. 6 you start discussing the problem,calm down,count to 10 and imagine a relaxing 7 . Then,say what is really bothering you,but watch how you express yourself. Don’t complain. Share 8 you feel by using “I”. For example,don't say “You are always ordering me to do this or to do that ,” but “I feel sad 9 you don't pay attention to what I think. You want people to 10 your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say.

    Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way. Be open-minded and willing to say sorry.

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Answer 1

[解析]本文敘述了處理沖突的方法。不同人處理沖突的方法是不同的。處理沖突要一步一步的。首先要鎮(zhèn)定下來，然后說出真正困擾自己的事情；不要抱怨，要把你的感覺與他人分享；你想讓人們聽你的

觀點，所以要確保自己能實踐自己想要說的事情。要虛心，愿意說聲對不起。

1. life位于名詞所有格everyone's后面用名詞life。 句意：沖突是每個人生活的一部分。

2. natural 根據(jù) It's OK to feel angry,annoyed or sad.可知感到生氣、惱怒或者悲傷沒有關(guān)系，說明 這是很自然的事，故此處為natural。句意：這些感 情是很自然的。

3. them 代替復數(shù)名詞 These feelings 作 deal with 的賓語，故用代詞them。句意：但是不同人用不 同的方法處理他們。

4. hurt根據(jù)hit the person可知要撞擊那個傷害他 的人，故此處用動詞hurt。句意：或者撞擊傷害了 他的那個人。

5. successfully 根據(jù) Others do their best to keep a-way from disagreements可知其他人遠離了沖突， 因此就無法成功的解決沖突。此處修飾動詞短語 deal with conflict ,故用副詞 successfully。

6. Before根據(jù)calm down ,可知鎮(zhèn)定下來應(yīng)是在解 決問題之前，故用連詞Before。句意：在開始討論 問題之前，鎮(zhèn)定下來。

7. place此處用不定冠詞a修飾的是一個單數(shù)名 詞，故為place。句意：數(shù)到10.想象一個放松的 地方。

8. how作為動詞share的賓語從句you feel中，feel 是不及物動詞，故接賓語，故用狀語how。句意： 把你的感覺如何分享。

9. because you don't pay attention to what I think “你不關(guān)注我的想法”和I feel sad “我感到悲傷”， 之間是因果關(guān)系，故用連詞because。

10. hear 根據(jù) pay attention to what I think 可知要 想讓人關(guān)注你的想法，意思是聽別人的想法，根據(jù)短語want to do sth.故此處用動詞原形用 hear。句意：你想讓人們聽你的觀點，因此要確 保自己能實踐自己想要說的事情。