Question

Many people tend to complain about not having good friends in their lives. Sadly, they seem to think that their own company is not enough to make them happy. Nothing could be further from the truth though. In order to get along with others, the first thing you need to do is learn to get along with yourself. Only in this way will you succeed in developing healthy, solid relationships with others. How to develop?

Listen to your inner voice. Remember that inner voice that keeps whispering to you what you really want and need as well as what you do not really want and need. It is about time you started listening to it. In order to get to know yourself in depth, it is important to learn and accept what you want and what you do not want.

Learn to enjoy your own company. You will be surprised to find out how many things you can do by yourself and actually have fun in the process. Reading romantic novels, poetry or science fiction is only a few of the things that you can do by yourself, which can not only offer you hours of enjoyment, but also the chance to get to know yourself better.

Satisfy yourself. Pay special attention to your personal hygiene(衛(wèi)生)．Do your hair and nails often and experiment with new styles. Follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly to stay in good shape. No matter how busy your daily schedule is, always find at least an hour per day for yourself, when you can either relax doing absolutely nothing, or doing something that you enjoy.

Learn to respect your own boundaries. Find out what your boundaries are and learn to respect them. You are the only one who knows what you can and what you cannot accept；no one else can point that out to you, or force you to compromise(妥協(xié)).

1.If you want to have a good relationship with others, you should first________.

A．learn to be your own best friend

B．make many friends in society

C．always tell the truth

D．get into the habit of living alone

2.What is the purpose of listening to your inner voice?

A．To keep a good state of mind.

B．To enjoy the time by yourself.

C．To know more about yourself.

D．To form a relationship with others.

3.In order to please yourself, the writer gives some suggestions EXCEPT________.

A．eating healthily

B．exercising regularly

C．experimenting with new hair styles

D．keep on struggling

4.What can be the best title for the text?

A．How to develop good relationship with others

B．Avoid the disadvantages of being alone

C．The benefit of having good friends

D．Learn to get along with yourself

Answer 1

1.A

2.C

3.D

4.D

【解析】

試題分析: 本文是一篇議論文。針對好多人抱怨自己沒有好朋友，作者提出建議：如果你想和別人相處好首先要和自己成為好朋友。然后分別告訴我們怎么才能做自己的朋友，怎樣才能和自己相處得好。

1.A細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第一段第二行In order to get along with others, the first thing you need to do is learn to get along with yourself.描述可知為了和別人相處好，首先你需要學著和自己相處得好，也就是學著做自己的好朋友，故選A。

2.C細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第二段第一行Remember that inner voice that keeps whispering to you what you really want and need as well as what you do not really want and need.描述可知傾聽自己內心的聲音是為了更好的了解你自己，故選C。

3.D細節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)第四段第一行Do your hair and nails often and experiment with new styles. Follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly to stay in good shape.描述可知為了讓自己高興，你要實驗新的發(fā)型，要吃得健康，要定期鍛煉，這分別是選項A、B、C提到的內容，并沒有選項D說的持續(xù)努力，故選D。

4.D標題歸納題。文章第一段指出:如果你想和別人相處好首先要和自己成為好朋友，后面的四段分別說了怎么才能做自己的朋友，怎樣才能和自己相處得好，所以文章最好的標題是學著和自己相處得好。故選D。

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