Question

We spend so much time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, and looking for that special love．Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. To be loved, you should love and respect yourself as much as you do others. In order to love someone, you should love yourself．

●Stop comparing yourself to others．1.We all have different gifts．When you compare yourself to others for what they have, whether it is a car, a house, or a job, it makes you feel bad about yourself. Really be grateful about everything you have. Gratitude keeps your heart open to love．

●Practice receiving love. To truly love is to be able to receive it. When someone loves you, does some kind deeds to you, or says kind words, accept it．2.Know that you are worthy of love. It is important to accept a gift of love by others. You give yourself a chance to learn more about yourself that you are lovable．3.

●4.Write about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down good experiences, allow yourself to feel those feelings. When you remember bad experiences, allow yourself to feel self-compassion. Compassion is not self-pity, but rather willingness to accept one's own pain and regret．

●Stop trying to be perfect. Stop blaming yourself for being less than perfect．5.Just follow all the steps above and don't let anyone's expectations of you put any pressure on you．

A. Keep a diary．

B. Appreciate yourself．

C. Do not feel sorry about it．

D. Always do your best, but not reaching perfection is NOT failure．

E. Allow yourself to feel the love that has come your way．

F. You give someone a joy of giving by loving you．

G. Everyone on the earth is unique.

Answer 1

1.G

2.E

3.F

4.A

5.D

【解析】

試題分析：本文告訴讀者想要被愛(ài)首先要學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)自己，在愛(ài)自己的前提下去愛(ài)別人。

1. comparing yourself to others（停止和別人相比）和We all have different gifts（我們都有不同的天賦）�？梢酝瞥鰴M線上填：Everyone on the earth is unique（每個(gè)人在世上都是獨(dú)一無(wú)二的）故選G。

2. someone loves you, does some kind deeds to you, or says kind words, accept it.句意：當(dāng)有人愛(ài)你時(shí)，對(duì)你做出一些善意的行為或說(shuō)一些好聽(tīng)的話，接受它吧。Know that you are worthy of love. It is important to accept a gift of love by others.句意：要知道，你值得被愛(ài)，接受他人愛(ài)的饋贈(zèng)是很重要的。得出作者告訴我們要打開(kāi)心靈接受并且享受他人對(duì)我們的愛(ài)所以橫線上填：讓你自己用你自己的方式感受到愛(ài)的存在，故選E.

3. is important to accept a gift of love by others. You give yourself a chance to learn more about yourself that you are lovable．句意：接受他人愛(ài)的饋贈(zèng)是很重的，你該給自己一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)去更多的了解你自己是一個(gè)多么可愛(ài)的人�？梢酝瞥觯耗阍诮邮軔�(ài)你的人給予你愛(ài)的同時(shí)，愛(ài)你的人也會(huì)感到高興，故橫線上填：你給了愛(ài)你的人給予的快樂(lè)。故選F.

4. about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down good experiences, allow yourself to feel those feelings. When you remember bad experiences, allow yourself to feel self-compassion.句意:寫(xiě)下你的經(jīng)歷，好的和壞的，當(dāng)你寫(xiě)下好的經(jīng)歷的時(shí)候，你會(huì)感受到那些感覺(jué)。當(dāng)你記下壞的經(jīng)歷的時(shí)候，你可以感受到自我同情。故橫線上可以填：習(xí)慣的記日記，故選A.

5. trying to be perfect. Stop blaming yourself for being less than perfect．句意：停止做到完美這一舉動(dòng)，停止責(zé)備自己因?yàn)槟且稽c(diǎn)不完美。可以推出作者要告訴讀者不要那么追求完美，故橫線上可以填：總是做到最好，但是不因沒(méi)有達(dá)到完美而氣餒，故選D.

考點(diǎn)：考查散文閱讀。