Encouraging Positive Relationships

Choosing one’s friends is an important part of growing up. And although you can’t choose your children’s friends, you can have a positive influence on the relationships they make throughout their formative years. Use the following strategies to help your children to build positive relationships with their friends.

● Encourage diversity.   1.   In addition to exposing your kids to more diversity, it will also help them learn more about themselves.

● Avoid criticism. Avoid criticizing friendships, but be honest with your kids when you’re concerned.   2.   This may make them defensive and less receptive to what you have to say. Do be open and willing to listen to what they have to say, and talk about what makes you nervous.

●  3.   If you feel that one of your child’s friends is having a negative influence on him, invite that friend to spend time with you and your child together so that you can have a positive influence on the relationship.

● Engage in community service. Engage your family in service and volunteering (or join a social group) through a local church, school, or other nonprofit organization.   4. 

●  5.   When talking about a friend who has a negative influence on your child, focus your comments on that friend’s behaviors, not on her personality. For example, instead of calling your child’s friend irresponsible for smoking, you could point out that the behavior has a negative effect on her health and recommend ways for your child to help her quit.

A. Offer advice.

B. Get involved.

C. Don’t condemn your child’s friends.

D. Help your kids find the group that they fit with.

E. These events can be great places to meet new friends.

F. It’s important to develop positive relationships with family members as well.

G. Challenge your children to get to know kids from many different backgrounds.

 

【答案】

 

1.G

2.C

3.B

4.E

5.A

【解析】

試題分析：文章就鼓勵(lì)孩子與他人建立積極的人際關(guān)系提出了建議。

1.G 上文“Encourage diversity”是說“鼓勵(lì)多樣化”，下文又說“In addition to exposing your kids to more diversity”，所以與G答案中的“many different backgrounds.”相吻合。

2.C 上文“Avoid criticism” 是說“避免批評(píng)” 與C答案“不要責(zé)備你孩子的朋友” 相吻合。

3.B 下文“如果你覺得你孩子的朋友對(duì)你的孩子有負(fù)面的影響的話，你就把那個(gè)朋友邀請(qǐng)過來和你以及你的孩子一起度過一段時(shí)間以便你對(duì)他們的關(guān)系施加積極的影響”，說明給你的建議就是“介入其中”。

4.E 上文講了要參加一系列活動(dòng)，而參加這些活動(dòng)的目的就是“結(jié)識(shí)新朋友”。

5.A 下文提供都是建議。

 

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