Question

【題目】

以下是生活中父母如何和孩子保持良好關(guān)系的材料。閱讀至和A至F 對這些材料的主題概括, 選出符合每題的最佳選項。

【1】 Teenagers have opinions about everything and they aren’t shy about sharing them. So allow them to make more decisions. For example, let them decide when and where to study, what to wear, what sports team to join. However, keep in mind that some decisions can’t be discussed or changed. Parents need to set limits that protect their children’ health and safety.

【2】 There’s something happy about the family sitting together around the dinner table. The evening meal is often the time of the day when the family can sit together in one place and talk with each other. So make dinner a family affair. You can use the chance to share the news of the day and make weekend plans.

【3】 You can tell your children that you, too, sometimes feel angry or unhappy, which shows your children that you’re not just a parent—you’re a human. Not only will your children feel closer to you, but he or she may feel safe enough to disclose uncomfortable things or feelings.

【4】 They maybe make some wrong choices sometimes. But if they’re over 18, give them the chance to deal with problems on their own. After all, didn’t you want the same from your parents when you were their age?

【5】 Don’t read her diary, eavesdrop (偷聽) on his phone conversations, or upset her with questions. Remember that they are humans and have their own privacy (隱私) just like you. If you think they have some problems, point it out directly, using five little words: “Can we talk about it?” For example, you can use the words such as “I’ve smelled smoke when you walk into the room several times now. A.Have you been smoking? Can we talk about it?”

B.Share your own feelings with your children.

C.Trust your children to make their own choices.

Allow your children to make their own decisions.

D.Don’t break your children’s privacy.

E.Praise your children when you should.

F.Set a fixed dinnertime to your children

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】C

【2】F

【3】A

【4】B

【5】D

【解析】

【1】C：允許孩子自己做決定。由下一句So allow them to make more decisions可知，本段主要是講父母要多讓孩子自己做選擇，接著舉例，可以讓他們自己選擇什么時候或是在哪里學習，要穿什么等事情。所以此空應該選C。

【2】F: 跟孩子定一個家庭會談時間。這一段主要是講一個家庭會談，可以在每一次晚餐的時候，大家一起坐在一起談談。可以從一些關(guān)鍵詞，例如dinner，sit，family等詞中可以看出，所以此題選F。

【3】A: 和孩子分享自己的感受。 由You can tell your children that you, too, sometimes feel angry or unhappy, which shows your children that you’re not just a parent—you’re a human.可知，這段是講父母要學會與孩子一起分享，無論是高興還是傷心都可以與孩子分享，這樣也可以拉近與孩子的距離。所以選A。

【4】B：相信孩子可以做自己的選擇。本段主要講孩子可能做出一些錯誤的決定，但是父母要給孩子機會自己解決問題，這樣他們才能成才，從而做出正確的選擇。故選B。

【5】D: 不要侵犯孩子的隱私。由本段幾個重要的單詞eavesdrop (偷聽)和privacy (隱私)

可知，這段與孩子的隱私有關(guān)。由Don’t read her diary, eavesdrop (偷聽) on his phone conversations, or upset her with questions.也可以知道，父母不要讀孩子的日記，偷聽他們的電話等。所以選項D正確，故選D。

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