1．Every parent wants their child to grow up to enjoy life and be successful．Each and every one of us has something that we don't want our children to experience as they get older．We protect them hoping they will never experience hurt，yet as they get older they come across their own struggles．
We often do everything we can to keep them from making the mistakes that we have made．Your children are not you．They are incredible little beings that choose you to experience life with．They are not little"mini me's"that will make the same mistakes we have made or learn the way we learn from our own experiences．They go to school，have experiences that they only tell us about，and understand the experiences through their own thoughts and feelings mixed in with family behavioral patterns．This is where you can make a difference．Be an example．
Teach your child how to live life by being the person you would want them to be-helping others，loving yourself and making no judgments about other people．As you learn this in your own self and apply it，your child won't need you to speak a word．If little Joannie doesn't want to share with another child，show them how to share．Show by example．
If you don't want other to walk all over you，treat others as you want to be treated because there is a child learning behaviors from you．Be the example of what you want your child to be through your own positive thoughts and feelings．It is the best thing you can do for your child and yourself to ensure your child feel accepted and loved as they get older．
53．We can infer from the second paragraph thatD．
A．children are likely to make mistakes their parents made
B．children don't want to spend time with their family
C．children are like their parents in many ways
D．children base their actions on their thoughts
54．The underlined phrase"walk all over you"in the last paragraph probably means"D"．
A．see your weaknesses
B．know your thoughts
C．learn your secrets
D．treat you badly
55．In the passage，the author expressesA．
A．his concern for the role parents play in families
B．his support for children's independence
C．his wonder at the potential（潛力）of children
D．his surprise at parents'stubbornness
56．Which of the following will be the best title for the passage？B
A．Make no judgments about others
B．Be the example in your child's life
C．Treat others as you want to be treated
D．Keep your child from making your mistakes．
分析 本文作者主要針對家長們?yōu)榱俗尯⒆咏窈竽塬@得成功，并過上愉快的生活，總是竭盡一切所能來使孩子避免犯自己曾經(jīng)犯過的錯誤的這一做法，提出了自己的看法；即首先孩子們接受著學(xué)校的教育；有著自己的體驗，對待一些事情也有自己的想法與感受；另外，為了等到孩子們變老的時候，有一種被接納和被愛的感受，家長們應(yīng)為孩子做好了以下表率：如教育孩子通過學(xué)會幫助別人，愛自己，不去評價別人等方式來生活；教他們學(xué)會與他人分享；教育他們應(yīng)該像自己要求別人怎樣對自己那樣去對待別人等．
解答 答案：
53．D 內(nèi)容歸納題 在第二段中，作者主要告誡家長不應(yīng)該把孩子看做是自己小時候的縮影，他們不會再犯我們以前犯過的錯誤或是按我們以前憑自己的經(jīng)驗來學(xué)習(xí)的方式進(jìn)行學(xué)習(xí)，他們?nèi)W(xué)校上學(xué)，有著自己的體驗，對待一些事情也有自己的想法與感受；故選D
54．D 句意解釋題 根據(jù)最后一段中"…，treat others as you want to be treated because there is a child learning behaviors from you．（因為孩子學(xué)習(xí)的是你的言談舉止，…那就要像自己要求別人怎樣對你那樣去對待別人．）"可推測出前一句的意思是：如果你不想別人對你不好的話；故選D
55．A 觀點態(tài)度題 通讀全文可知，本文作者主要針對家長教育孩子的方式方法上提出了一些建議，即作者擔(dān)心家長在教育引導(dǎo)孩子時的所扮演的角色問題；故選A
56．B 標(biāo)題選擇題 根據(jù)本文的主旨大意可知，本文主要針對家長為了讓孩子今后能獲得成功，并過上愉快的生活，總是竭盡一切所能來使孩子避免犯自己曾經(jīng)犯過的錯誤的這一做法，提出了自己的建議，即家長應(yīng)給孩子做好表率，只有這樣，等到他們變老的時候，才會有一種被接納和被愛的感受；故選B
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