3.Disappointment is natural and normal,and everyone will experience it to some extent in their life.Sometimes life deals us a difficult hand,and events and trials arise that we have no control over.Other times it is our own actions themselves that cause our trials.Regardless of the nature of our trials,disappointment is part of life's journey and how we deal with it will largely determine the quality of our life.Here are some steps to help us to make our journey more enjoyable.
Firstly,redefine our rules.It is assumed that everyone has an internal"rule"in their mind.If our internal rules are too perfect,then they will discourage us greatly.For example,if we have a rule that says we need to be perfect,it is likely that we will spend a large amount of time feeling sad and disappointed.So when we feel disappointed,it is wise to review and redefine our rules.Want an example of an encouraging rule?Try this one:I am happy and I am successful since I have made my greatest efforts.
Secondly,remind ourselves now and then of the reasons why we are seeking the very goal.As a matter of fact,there are many cases where we have forgotten our original purposes along the way.So it is of great help to remember the reasons why we are committed to a path in the first place when we feel down.By revisiting those reasons,we will likely renew our commitment and not get hung up on the disappointment of the moment.
Thirdly,think about our larger vision and recommit to it.Disappointment is merely a setback on what will eventually be a great and inspiring journey.So when we have those momentary setbacks,it is helpful to think about our larger vision and recommit to it.In our larger vision,therefore,a disappointment is a very valuable experience,which serves as a good educator and makes us more able to meet the challenges of the future.
Finally,reset and have a new start.Resetting and starting a new prevents us from abandoning ourselves to self-pity and forces us to get up and move forward.Don't live in the past.Take what the past has taught us and keep moving.Wake up the very next day as if our whole life is ahead of us and we have the chance to start fresh.Nothing that happened in the past can stop us from creating the life that we have always desired or from accomplishing the goals that we are seeking.
TitleLearning to deal with disappointment
IntroductionDisappointment exists (76)naturallyand normally in our life and learning to deal with it is part of a fulfilling life.
Causes of disappointmentEvents and trials in life are sometimes beyond our (77)control.
Our trials are sometimes (78)caused by our own actions.
(79)Approaches/Solutions to dealing with disappointmentRedefine our rulesWhen redefining our rules,we are supposed to (80)replacediscouraging ones with encouraging ones.
(81)Remember/Revisit/Recall, our whysBeing (82)reminded often of our whys helps us renew our commitment and get over the disappointment.
Recommit to our visionExperiencing disappointments prepares us to have the (83)ability/abilities of meeting the challenges of the future.
Reset and start anewInstead of living in the past,we take what we have (84)learned/learnt from the past and move forward.
ConclusionDealing with disappointment effectively can improve the (85)qualityof our life and make our life journey enjoyable.

分析 如何處理失望的情緒?
在生活中我們常常感到失望,可能是因為我們內(nèi)心的準(zhǔn)則太過于完美,因此,我們要說你內(nèi)心的期望值,不要要求過于完美;我們應(yīng)該不忘初心,保持積極的心態(tài),不要過度失望;此外,我們要用宏觀的眼光來看待暫時的失落;最后,懂得重新開始,不要讓過去的失落影響我們的未來.

解答 76.naturally,這個題目的要求是分析全文的結(jié)構(gòu),表格左邊的單詞Introduction的含義是"介紹",根據(jù)第一句話可以知道答案,這里要修飾動詞,因此,用naturally修飾動詞exist;
77.control,考察同義轉(zhuǎn)換,答案仍然在第一段可以找到,在第二句that we have no control over,要是失去控制,表示"不在我們的控制范圍內(nèi)",可用beyond our control,;
78.caused,這里只有我們的磨練有時是由我們的行為引起的,意思是"磨練,試驗";
79.Approaches/Solutions,第二段主要是作者介紹一些解決失望的方法,渠道或者途徑;
80.replace,這里從81空格到84空格的句子,都是總結(jié)作者的建議,一共有四個建議,第一條建議在第二段可以找到,So when we feel disappointed,it is wise to review and redefine our rules.也就是用積極的信條來代替消極的信條,這里"代替"用replace,
81.Remember/Revisit/Recall,這個在第三段可以找到,也就是,讓我們不要忘記我們最初的出發(fā)點,經(jīng)常要回顧,回憶我們?yōu)槭裁闯霭l(fā)?以此來提醒我們保持積極的心態(tài).
82.reminded   這里指保持被提醒的狀態(tài);
83.a(chǎn)bility/abilities,經(jīng)歷暫時的失落,可以讓我們擁有面對未來挑戰(zhàn)的能力;
84.learned/learnt,根據(jù)最后一條建議,也就是在最后一段的句子可以知道,Don't live in the past.Take what the past has taught us and keep moving.也就是--我們要學(xué)習(xí)過去的教訓(xùn),并且保持前進(jìn);
85.quality,總結(jié)句指出--妥善地處理失望,能夠提升我們的生活質(zhì)量.

點評 本題考查了文章結(jié)構(gòu)的分析,考生在平時要注意提煉語意,了解文章的寫作結(jié)構(gòu).

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