17．Good listening skills can provide you with a deeper level of understanding about someone's situation．If you want to know how to be a good listener，read on to get started！
（36）B It's easy to get lost in yourself and to only consider the impact of the other person's"telling"on you．But active listening is blocked by your inward thinking．On the contrary，you must look at the problems from the other person's angle．
Don't try to help immediately．Some people think that they should find a quick and easy solution to the person's problem while listening．Instead，you should take the time to think of a"solution"only if he or she is really looking for help in this way．（37）G
Remember what you've been told．（38）DSo，if the person is telling you about his problems with his best friend，you can at least remember his name so you can refer to him that way．If you don't remember any names，details，or important events，then it won't sound like you're listening．
Encourage the speaker with body language．（39）C．Also says little things such as"Yeah"when the person is talking about something that they want you to agree on or"Wow"when the person talks about a tragedy or something bad done against them．These words betray that you're not only listening but paying attention．
Make eye contact．If you give your friend the impression you aren't interested and are distracted，they may never open up to you again．（40）E

A．Wait for the person to open up．
B．Place yourself in the other person's shoes．
C．Show them that you care by nodding at right times so they know you're listening．
D．Being a good listener is to actually absorb the information the person has told you．
E．Focus directly on their eyes so that they will know certainly that you are absorbing every single word．
F．Instead of the conclusion，let the speaker know that you are ready to listen and to be a sounding board．
G．If you start thinking of all of the quick measures for the person's problems，you won't be listening attentively．

分析 本文是一篇關(guān)于社會生活的說明文．在日常生活中，良好的傾聽技巧可以讓你有一個更深層次的了解某人的情況的能力．那么如何去做一個好的傾聽者呢？本文提出了幾條建議．

解答 36-40 BGDCE
36．B 本段主要內(nèi)容為：人們往往容易迷失自我，過多關(guān)注別人說的話對個人的影響．結(jié)合下句中you must look at the problems from the other person's angle．空處填要多從別人角度考慮問題，故選B．
37．G 根據(jù)本段開頭Don't try to help immediately．及you should take the time to think of a"solution"，可知不能在對方提出問題的時候馬上去考慮解決方案，G項(xiàng)意思符合前后句意，故選G．
38．D 根據(jù)本段總起句Remember what you've been told，可知作為一個好的傾聽者必需要認(rèn)真理解別人告訴你的信息，故選D．
39．C 根據(jù)上文提到用身體語言去鼓勵說話者，空處填與肢體語言有關(guān)的句子符合句意，故選C．
40．E 根據(jù)上文內(nèi)容可知本段主要講述要用眼神交流的方式關(guān)注說話者，要直接注視這對方的眼睛讓他們知道你是真心的，故選E．

點(diǎn)評 本文是一篇說明文，要求學(xué)生在理解文章整體的情況下，充分考慮語境和空格前后的句子，確定相關(guān)信息，選出正確答案．

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