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　　Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying．“I hate her! I hate her! I will 　　1　　 play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed．　　2　　 she told her father what had happened．He listened attentively．　　3　　 she stopped, he asked, “Is there 　　4　　 else?” Dahlia added more details and began 　　5　　 bitterly again．Father listened．When Dahlia 　　6　　 talking, he said, “It must 　　7　　 to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina．” Dahlia 　　8　　 her father embraced(擁抱)and support as she cried 　　9　　 more in his arms．Then as 　　10　　 as the storm of tears began, she was finished．She got up and 　　11　　 announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are 　　12　　 a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I 　　13　　 ruin her work again, and I'm sure she will be 　　14　　 to me．”

　　Why was this encounter(sudden meeting)so successful? How did Dahlia 　　15　　 her upset so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter 　　16　　 her own?

　　There were three main parts in her father's reaction that 　　17　　：(A)Attention(B)Respect(C)Trust．He gave his daughter 　　18　　 attention and took her seriously as she 　　19　　 her feelings．He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help．He validated(證實(shí))the feeling she 　　20　　．And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions．

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