Question

Two friends have an argument that breaks up their friendship forever, even though neither one can remember how the whole thing got started. Such sad events happen over and over in high schools across the country. In fact, according to an official report on youth violence, “In our country today, the greatest threat to the lives of children and adolescents is not disease or starvation or abandonment, but the terrible reality of violence”. Given that this is the case, why aren't students taught to manage conflict the way they are taught to solve math problems, drive cars, or stay physically fit?

First of all, students need to realize that conflict is unavoidable. A report on violence among middle school and high school students indicates that most violent incidents between students begin with a relatively minor insult(侮辱). For example, a fight could start over the fact that one student eats a peanut butter sandwich each lunchtime. Laughter over the sandwich can lead to insults, which in turn can lead to violence. The problem isn't in the sandwich, but in the way students deal with the conflict.

Once students recognize that conflict is unavoidable, they can practice the golden rule of conflict resolution(解決)：stay calm. Once the student feels calmer, he or she should choose words that will calm the other person down as well. Rude words, name?calling, and accusations only add fuel to the emotional fire. On the other hand, soft words spoken at a normal sound level can put out the fire before it explodes out of control.

After both sides have calmed down, they can use another key strategy(策略) for conflict resolution: listening. Listening allows the two sides to understand each other. One person should describe his or her side, and the other person should listen without interrupting. Afterward, the listener can ask non?threatening questions to clarify the speaker's position. Then the two people should change roles.

Finally, students need to consider what they are bearing. This doesn't mean trying to figure out what's wrong with the other person. It means understanding what the real issue is and what both sides are trying to accomplish. For example, a shouting match over a peanut butter sandwich might happen because one person thinks the other person is unwilling to try new things. Students need to ask themselves questions such as these：How did this start? What do I really want? What am I afraid of? As the issue becomes clearer, the conflict often simply becomes smaller. Even if it doesn't, careful thought helps both sides figure out a mutual solution.

There will always be conflict in schools, but that doesn't mean there needs to be violence. After students in Atlanta started a conflict resolution program, according to Educators for Social Responsibility, “64 percent of the teachers reported less physical violence in the classroom; 75 percent of the teachers reported an increase in student cooperation; and 92 percent of the students felt better about themselves”. Learning to resolve conflicts can help students deal with friends, teachers, parents, bosses, and coworkers. In that way, conflict resolution is a basic life skill that should be taught in schools across the country.

1.This article is mainly about ________.

A. the lives of school children

B. the cause of arguments in schools

C. how to analyze youth violence

D. how to deal with school conflicts

2.From Paragraph 2 we can learn that ________.

A. violence is more likely to occur at lunchtime

B. a small conflict can lead to violence

C. students tend to lose their temper easily

D. the eating habit of a student is often the cause of a fight

3.Why do students need to ask themselves the questions stated in Paragraph 5?

A. To find out who is to blame.

B. To get ready to try new things.

C. To make clear what the real issue is.

D. To figure out how to stop the shouting match.

4.After the conflict resolution program was started in Atlanta, it was found that ________.

A. there was a decrease in classroom violence

B. there was less student cooperation in the classroom

C. more teachers felt better about themselves in schools

D. the teacher?student relationship greatly improved

5.The writer's purpose for writing this article is to ________.

A. complain about problems in school education

B. teach students different strategies for school life

C. advocate teaching conflict management in schools

D. inform teachers of the latest studies on school violence

 

Answer 1

1.D

2.B

3.C

4.A

5.C

【解析】文章大意：作者在文章中主要探討了如何讓學(xué)生正確、冷靜處理校園沖突，從而減少校園暴力以及介紹了學(xué)生學(xué)會(huì)解決沖突的益處，最后呼吁全國的各個(gè)學(xué)校教授學(xué)生解決沖突的技能。

1.主旨大意題。從文章第一段…is not disease or starvation or abandonment, but the terrible reality of violence…，以及下文提到的First of all…；Once students…；After both sides have calmed down…；Finally, students…等知，該文主要介紹了如何幫助學(xué)生正確處理校園沖突的方法，所以選D項(xiàng)。

2.推理判斷題。從第二段…begin with a relatively minor insult…推知，很多時(shí)候校園沖突的起因只是一件小事而已。下面作者所列舉的例子也是來說明這一點(diǎn)的，故選B項(xiàng)。

3.推理判斷題。從第五段It means understanding what the real issue is and what both sides are trying to accomplish…知，學(xué)生自問問題的關(guān)鍵在于：讓學(xué)生明白沖突真正的癥結(jié)所在，而不是只關(guān)注對方的過錯(cuò)，由此推斷C項(xiàng)是最佳答案。

4.細(xì)節(jié)理解題。從第六段…64 percent of the teachers reported less physical violence in the classroom…知，亞特蘭大實(shí)施了校園沖突解決方案后，肢體上的暴力行為有了較大的減少，而合作上升了，學(xué)生們的自我歸屬感也增強(qiáng)了，所以選A項(xiàng)。

5.寫作意圖題。從文章中第一段…Given that this is the case…和最后一段In that way, conflict resolution is a basic life skill that should be taught…，并結(jié)合全文知，本文作者主要倡導(dǎo)在校園中教授解決沖突的辦法，所以選C項(xiàng)。