14.As a parent,you have spent years caring for and protecting your child.But as he/she becomes a teenager,he/she will naturally want to spread his/her wings.1(36)G.So teaching your teen to be independent is very rewarding both for you and for your teen.
Explain to your teen what it means to be independent.During adolescence(青春期),your teen is starting to explore and understand the things and people around him/her.Therefore,this is the best time to build a sense of responsibility in your child,which will make him/her into a stronger and better person in the long run.(37)D.Exercise your teen's ability to make decisions independently.
Encourage your teen to fully express himself/herself.He/She is trying to discover who he/she is and is not.(38)ETry to listen to what he/she is saying and avoid being judgmental(動(dòng)輒評(píng)頭論足的).Learn to know him/her as a person in his/her way.
Help your teen develop his/her talent.You can encourage independence in your teen by finding and developing his/her talent.(39)BBeing good at something will give your teen confidence and help him/her try his/her hardest.And your teen will become more disciplined(守紀(jì)律的)
(40)AAs he/she spreads his/her wings,make sure you let him/her know you will be nearby whenever he/she needs you.This safety net will make it possible for him/her to have the confidence he/she needs to fly into his/her future.
A.Remind your teen that you will always be there for him/her.
B.If he/she loves to cook,sign him/her up for a cooking class.
C.But now is his/her chance to make mistakes and learn from them
D.Explain to your child that he/she must do something on his/her own.
E.Accept that he/she may not like the thing you do or have the same opinions.
F.You can guide your teen in the right direction by giving him/her some advice.
G.This can be a challenge for both of you,as you have to rebalance your relationship.